So I began going through my things last night and I came across a box of photos and things from a friend that I haven't spoken to since April last year and I made the decision that they weren't worth keeping anymore. I am no longer the teenage girl so desperate for friends that I would be willing to sacrifice my own self worth for it by being walked all over. In the last few years I have become very comfortable with being by myself and being able to comfortable go out and do things by myself and I came to the conclusion last night that I prefer that to having "friends" that would never put anything into a friendship that I was putting so much into. It isn't worth my time, the frustration or the effort and I know there are a lot of girls who would be in the same position that I was in.
My advice to any of you that are flogging away at a friendship that isn't working, don't resist being alone, its much easier than the constant disappointment of trying to make a friendship work when the other person has no intentions of trying. Friendships are supposed to have times of difficulty but it shouldn't always be hard, the good times should outweigh the bad times and don't be embarrassed about doing things by yourself, one day you are going to meet someone who knows exactly how you feel. Until then, don't hold onto friendships that are doing more harm than good because you think you can't go at it alone for a little bit! Theres nothing wrong with being alone if anything, its a good learning experience, you learn so much about yourself and what you want that its often an experience that is a benefit to you in the end.
Dress : Asos Curve
Belt : City Chic
Shoes : Therapy
Anyway, I hope you all had a wonderful day!
Happy Blogging my Lovelies xo
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